Former Minister of Education, Mrs. Obiageli Ezekwesili, on Thursday said there was a need for workplace security for women.
She made this statement while criticising
the commercialisation of women in the banking sector during a panel
discussion on Gender Based Violence, organised by Project Alert on
Violence Against Women, a non- governmental organisation.
Ezekwesili said, “It is terrible what so
many women are going through in the banking sector in the name of
getting deposits. There has to be workplace security for women and the
government has to enact family friendly and economic policies that would
help check this trend.
“An abused woman can never attain her
potential in life; she is already devalued in her mindset. Once a woman
is abused, the society is abused.”
Ezekwesili, who is also a former
Vice-President of the World Bank’s Africa Division, attributed the rise
in GBV to the culture of silence in the society and called for
partnership involving all stakeholders.
“A problem not dealt with is a problem
that has been accepted. There should be shared partnership between the
civil society, the government, private sector and the family in ending
GBV,” Ezekwesili added.
Executive Director of Project Alert, Dr.
Jospehine Effah-Chukwuma, while presenting the panellists for the
discussion, said, “The statistics on GBV are a frightening revelation
because children below the age of 17 are at risk, and that is why we had
to do the report and publish it.”
A motivational speaker and counsellor,
Mr. Praise Fowowe, raised the alarm on the increasing number of boys who
were being violated and sodomised in the society.
He said, “More boys are being violated
than ever before. This year alone, I have counselled many six-year-old
boys that had been sodomised. The sexual abuse of boys is not what
people talk about, but it is happening. Men who are sexually abused
often grow up to do same if not counselled.
“Violence against women is on the rise
because of cultural and religious lining. When a woman is not allowed to
speak in the church, it sends the signal to men that they are inferior.
When they are told to seat at the back in places of worship while the
men seat in front, the same mentality is perpetuated.
“Men need to be mentored and groomed to
respect women. We need to protect the girl child. I also urge women to
stand against wife beaters; any man who beats a woman doesn’t need one.
Once he has been identified, other women should not marry him. You don’t
prove your manhood by beating women.”
The event, which was held to commemorate
16 days activism against GBV, also featured the presentation of a book
by Project Alert, ‘Sexual Violence in Nigeria: A Silent Epidemic’.
Special Adviser to the Ogun State
Government on Millennium Goals, Mrs. Hafsat Abiola- Costello, while
reviewing the book, said the task of ending GBV could not be done
without the support of men.
Other personalities present at the event
were the Permanent Secretary for the Ministry of Women Affairs, Mrs.
Risikat Akiyode, representing the Lagos State Deputy Governor, Mrs.
Adejoke Orelope-Adefulire; Nollywood actress, Rita Dominic; Clinical
psychologist and psychotherapist, Dr. Maymunah Kadiri; an entrepreneur
and survivor of sexual violence, Miss Emmanuella Braide; and Director of
Dansol Schools, Mrs. Adun Akinyemiju.
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